I haven't really met many people who seem to realize the depth of
love. I want to meet someone who will love not my body, not my mind, not
my heart, but my soul.
My body is imperfect, I'm probably the least attractive person in my set of friends. Apart from this, it is ever
changing and will soon wither. It will wrinkle as time goes by, for we
live by borrowed time. No one can tell when it will be taken away,
because it isn't even ours to begin with.
My mind can change. I'm a very indecisive person. (Have you tried ordering something from a menu with me? Or going shopping with me? If not, good.)
I believe all of our perspectives are shaped as we grow up. Our
opinions can change anytime, and if a man loves me for my mind, then i
don't think I could be too sure of him just yet.
My heart, on the
other hand, is my blind spot. If a man loves me for my heart how can I
turn away? I guess this is the hardest one to beat. It's hard to tell
apart from the heart and the soul. But I guess the heart is what gives, what seeks, what loves, and what takes. The heart is our personality, how patient we are, how much love we can share to others, how we forgive those who wrong us, and our desires. Don't you think all of this can change too? If someone loved you for your forgiving nature, don't you feel pressured because of the thoughts that the person may not love you anymore if you change?
However,
the soul envelopes all the others. It is the encompasses all aspects
of a person's being, including change. Change is something that we
cannot set apart from what we are. And through this paradox of constant change, we find love that surpasses all.
